Untangle: Personal
Untangle: Personal
A clearer way through.
Sometimes the problem isn’t that you don’t have options. It’s that you’ve got too many thoughts, opinions, possibilities and what ifs tangled around them.
Untangle: Personal is a focused 90-minute conversation designed to help you work out what you’re really dealing with, what actually matters and what you want to do next.
No formula. No judgement. No telling you how to live your life.
Just another brain, a fresh perspective and the space to properly think something through.
This might be for you if…
You’re trying to make a decision and keep going round in circles.
Something in your life needs to change, but you’re not quite sure what.
You’ve got several options and can’t work out which one actually makes sense.
Other people’s opinions have become mixed up with your own.
You’ve thought about something for so long that you can no longer see it clearly.
Or perhaps you simply need to say the whole thing out loud to somebody who isn’t personally involved.
You don’t need to arrive with a perfectly defined problem. Working out what the real problem is can be part of the session.
How it works
Before
I’ll send you four short questions before we meet.
They’ll give me enough context to understand what you’d like to untangle, what you’d like to be different by the end of our conversation and what’s making it difficult right now.
If there’s something directly relevant that would help me understand the situation, you can send that too.
No homework. No enormous questionnaire.
During
We have 90 minutes online to work through it properly.
We’ll:
Find the real problem.
What are you actually dealing with?
Separate what matters from what doesn’t.
What’s relevant? What’s noise? What’s within your control? What have you accepted as a constraint simply because it’s always been there?
Work backwards from the outcome you want.
What would need to change? What needs to happen first? What’s genuinely standing in the way?
Find a practical way forward.
That might mean making a decision, trying something first, having a conversation, gathering more information, stopping something that isn’t helping or deciding that you don’t need to decide just yet.
The aim isn’t for me to make the decision for you.
It’s for you to be able to see it more clearly.
After
Within two working days, I’ll send you a concise personalised Untangle Summary covering:
What we identified
What matters
What comes next
Anything we deliberately parked
So you don’t have to spend the session taking notes or try to remember everything afterwards.
What you’ll leave with
By the end of Untangle, the aim is simple:
I understand what I’m actually dealing with.
I know what matters and what doesn’t.
I know what I’m doing next.
Not a twelve-step transformation plan.
Not a new version of yourself.
Just a clearer way through.
£150
90-minute online session
Four short pre-session questions.
Personalised written summary within two working days.
What happens next?
Sometimes Untangle is all you need.
Sometimes the next step becomes obvious and you take it yourself.
And occasionally we uncover something I can help with through another part of The Wise Edit. If we do, I’ll tell you. Any additional work is always separate and your choice.
Untangle isn’t ongoing support or counselling. It’s a defined piece of work with one purpose:
to help you see your way through something that’s become tangled.